120: Powerful Habits: Linking, Adding, and Surfing Urges with Blaine Oelkers

120: Powerful Habits: Linking, Adding, and Surfing Urges with Blaine Oelkers
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120: Powerful Habits: Linking, Adding, and Surfing Urges with Blaine Oelkers

Nov 29 2021 | 00:34:38

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Episode 0 November 29, 2021 00:34:38

Hosted By

Mike Zlotnik

Show Notes

Today we are honored to be joined by the Top Chief Results of America himself, Blaine Oelkers. While it may sound that way, Blaine doesn’t talk about numbers and economics, like we usually do in this show, but instead, we are talking about habits. Why are habits so powerful? And what does the number one chief results officer do help others establish very important and powerful habits. He goes from adding habits by way of linking and surfing our urges, pushing off those rewards and habits before anything else. When eliminating the bad habits, Blaine shares all the basic techniques and tricks up his sleeve. From the common substitution to identifying triggers, buddying up, and how sometimes your why is all you could possibly need. There is power in the daily habits that we do, they shape and form our very lives. This is a reminder that we are ALL already masters of habits. It’s just a matter of mastering which ones we build with and ultimately, live by.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THE EPISODE

01:13 - The American Chief Results Officer  03:11 - Why are habits so powerful? 06:28 - The great lie: It does NOT take 21 days 06:43 - The 21-second habit 08:35 - We are already habit masters 10:50 - Linking new habits to existing habits 12:16 - The mind shower habit 13:20 - Urge surfing and leverage 15:31 - Pushing off things to form habits 16:47 - NDP, the Next Day Planning 18:56 - Surfing the urge and rewarding yourself 20:56 - Ebb and flow of surfing urge waves 21:27 - Linking and adding habits 24:08 - Basics of eliminating bad habits 25:01 - Sometimes a big enough WHY is all you need 26:37 - Substitution habits 27:46 - Minimize and reduce triggers 28:35 - Identify and minimize the cues 29:16 - Out of sight, out of mind 29:45 - How can I do better next time? 30:05 - Buddy-up with others of similar habits 30:18 - Momentum and Don’t break the chain 30:49 - Pleasure and pain both work 32:57 - 21secondhabit.com 33:17 - BlaineTEDx.com

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-21 Second Habit Blaine on TEDx

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